When
I was growing up, I was blessed to be surrounded by a community that seemed to
be almost through and through Christian. Everyone belonged to a church—whether
they attended regularly or not—and all of my friends were extremely involved in
church activities. Now, there was a lot of cross-pollination occurring among
the youth of the community; it was very rare for a junior high or senior high
student to have only attended youth group at one of the many churches in town.
And
let me tell you. There were a lot of churches.
Southern
Baptist. American Baptist. Methodist. Lutheran. Episcopal. First Christian.
Church of Christ. African Methodist Episcopal. Non-denominational. Churches of
all denominations and from all walks of life littered this tiny town. In fact, my
home town is in the Guinness Book of
World Records because of its ample amount of churches: it is the only town
in the world that can boast that it has four churches and jail all on one city
block.
Now,
I was a good Methodist, heavily involved in the United Methodist Youth
Fellowship, or UMYF, that happened every Wednesday night and Sunday mornings at
First United Methodist Church. But I was also known to show up on occasion to
the youth events put on First Baptist. I also found out that some of the best
food to be found on Wednesday nights was at the Church of Christ youth
fellowship, so every once in a while I would head over there for a bite to eat
and Bible study. Church at the Epicenter, a new extra-denominational
church—which is just another fancy way of saying non-denominational—was just
starting while I was finishing up high school. Their services were always
spiritually filling and I loved sneaking in the back to join them in worship.
This
ecclesial cross-pollination led to some very interesting conversations between
people with different church backgrounds, but it also led to the forming of
some absolutely amazing faith-based relationships. The minister the Church of
Christ congregation is still a friend and mentor of mine, and some of the
members of the First Baptist Church and Church at the Epicenter had faiths so
strong that to this day they are still some of the examples to which I strive
to emulate.
No
matter where I went, though, whether it was my home congregation, the church across
the street, or one of the many within walking distance to my house, I know that
I could walk through the doors and be immediately greeted by people I knew and
loved and who knew and loved me. I would see families with children as young as
James, young men and women my age, and highly experienced men and women who
looked like they could be my Papa’s parents; but everyone was glad to see me,
and I was glad to see all of them.
It
was a great time to be in the church, because it seemed like everyone was there.
Now,
as all of you can see and as many of you have pointed out, I’m still a
young’un. It hasn’t been a full decade since I graduated from high school. But
it seems like a good bit has changed since I was in high school. When I went
back to my hometown a few weeks ago, I got to go back to that church I grew up
in. I got to see many of the people who had helped raise me in faith, and it
was a wonderful, nostalgic time of fellowship and worship. But something had
changed. Now, there were still people of all ages there, some of the ones in
high school are the little brothers and sisters of my friends, which still
trips me up because I think they should still be in second or third grade. The
old friendly faces that I missed so dearly were still there, and there were a
good many new faces alongside them.
But
the attitude had changed. The atmosphere of the church was just a little
different. Instead of that feeling like I was entering a celebration or large
family gathering, I felt like I was walking into a bunker full of soldiers who
knew they were fighting a losing battle. Now don’t get me wrong. The worship
was wonderful. It was great to see all of my old friends and to spend time
praising God with them. But something was off.
It
wasn’t until after the service when I had a chance to talk to some of those
people that I began to understand. You see, no matter whom I spoke to, I heard
the same few statements from almost everyone:
“No
one comes to church anymore.”
“We
can’t compete with Sunday sports.”
“It’s
not like it used to be. Everything’s changed.”
This
church—still reaching a large number of people and still full of many of the
individuals from my past—this church had seemingly forgotten who they serve.
For whatever reason, and they could give you a laundry list of them, they had
taken their eyes off of the true prize, the true reason for doing church.
They
had lost sight of the promise.